

The _actual_ message I sent him (verbatim) was: "Hey Edwin, [friend_in_common] has told me you're not scared of a camera when having sex! Look, I wouldn't want to scare you, but I don't want to make you lose your time, I know you're busy too! I need a dick that can come in public AND in front of a camera. But I don't want you to feel "used" so I'd love to invite you one day this week to have sex. No cameras needed! We can start with a coffee and see what happens, don't feel pressured! How does that sound?" I know, I know a bit "blunt"! hahahaha. Would you have accepted?